保健 - 第69期 - page 80

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理導航
譚志平
(心理科主任醫生)
Tam Chi Pin
THE PSYCHOLOGICAL
BURDEN OF RECOVERY
FROM INTERNET
ADDICTION
A secondary 3 student in
Tianjin was addicted to the
Internet. Once, he played Internet
games for 36 hours but still lost the
game; he collapsed and commit-
ted suicide... As Internet addiction,
or "spiritual opium" or "electronic
heroin", may affect seriously their
studies or work, do take good care
to ensure their recovery from such
additions. Note a very relevant
culprit of lack of communication
between parents / guardians and
the kid who then attempt to take
to the Internet for compensatory
"achievement". Reopen and rees-
tablish intimate links with them
who are commonly aged 11-25
years - instead of a drastic and
direct tighten up on Internet
access, talk to them on their topic
of interest. Avoid the impression
that you are the kid's "enemy" who
oppose to whatever he does;
rather, be his "compassionate
companion" - the only way to learn
his inner messages. After reestab-
lishing a good relationship, try to
lure the kid away from the Internet
toward other interests and learn-
ing topics. Instead of forceful
clamping down, you may even join
them on the Internet and gradu-
ally win their acceptance. One day,
they would listen to you and return
to normal.
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戒除
網 癮
的心理責任
一個新的辭彙——“網癮”,越來越多地出現在人們口頭上。
如今,許多人特別是青少年上網成癮,已經成為社會呼聲越來越
高的大問題。某校初三學生明宇每周都有一兩天或者幾天曠課去
網吧玩遊戲。熒屏的蒸烤,使他回到學校哈欠連天,萎靡不振,
學習跟不上,成績一落千丈。學校老師多次和家長配合,聯手開
導,都沒什麼進展,明宇依然故我。鑒於明宇存在明顯的精神障
礙,學校勸他休學
調整。
嚴重的例子
這是一個網癮
中毒比較嚴重的例
子,有一個中三學
生張瀟藝迷上網絡
遊戲,還根據自己
在遊戲中的感受寫
了一篇8萬字的網遊筆記《守望者
傳》。他自己就是那個無所不能
的“守望者”,一個和網絡英雄一
樣、可以拯救地球、可以死而復
生的復仇天神。由於沉迷遊戲,
他的學習成績越來越差,而在遊
戲中的守望者卻越來越強大。虛
擬中的膨脹與現實中的失落,產
生巨大反差,使他開始迷失方
向。在沉迷網絡遊戲連續36個小時以後,遊戲中的守望者竟然大
敗而歸!他的精神支柱崩潰了,第二天早晨,他留下遺書,登上
自家那棟24層樓的樓頂,縱身跳了下去⋯⋯跳樓的情節和他寫在
筆記本上的那些情節是一模一樣的。
“精神鴉片”、“電子海洛因”⋯⋯
人們驚呼“網癮”之可怕,把它稱之為“精神鴉片”、“電子海洛
因”⋯⋯
救陷入網癮的青少年於水火,是當務之急。毋庸諱言,老
師、家長、社會都有一份責任和義務。尤其是家長的責任似乎更
重大一些。因為在學校㛐學生還比較好控制,出了校門就應該是
家庭控制了。像上面說到的不得不休學調整的明宇,就更需要、
或者說只能由家長費心費力了。家長的責任確實不輕啊⋯⋯
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