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Dr
Reyes,
Associate
Professor
of
Clinical
Psychology, University
of lllinois at
Chicago,
was
to
uncover
the secret
of
a
happy woman.
Judith
of
Florida
is
a university professor
and
mother
of
2
kids. She knows her priorities,
e.9.,
playing
with
her kids has priority over
cleaning the house;
priority
jobs for the day are
well planned ahead every
morning.
Jane
of
Connecticut
is
a
marketing consultant; she
is
determined to face directly
all
kinds of stress
from work and from
life
-
in return, she
gets
satisfaction, self-confidence; like Judith,
she
also prioritize
in
detail
her
jobs;
but
in
addition,
Jane
tactfully
adds on
flexibility in
her plans
according
to
her list of "top priorities", e.9., watching a football game with
the
kids or
a
romantic dinner with
her
hubby.
Apart from an art teacher, Nancy
of
New York is also committed to considerable community and
volunteer
work;
her
secret
is
to
insist on
taking a mid-day
nap
to ensure
enough energy
for
her
to
solve
all
problems; when
troubled,
she talks to a close friend
-
she always
takes
a break when
troubled.
ln a com-
pletely new environment, Louise did not complain nor lose temper
-
losing patience or faith would
only
make matters
worse.
Stacy almost died with
the
delivery
of
her premature 3rd baby;
after
resuscitation,
life
seemed far too precious to be spent on grumbling about misfortunes.
For
these women,
it
was their attitude
towards
their
problems of life
that
made all the difference.
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