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INTERNET ADDICT DISORDER: DISEASE IS WITH THE CHILD; THE ROOT ISWITH THE PARENTS
In Guangxi, a junior suffering from internet addict disorder (IAD) was recently disciplined and tortured to death in a special camp
- the so-called "walking school"; another boy also died similarly in Urumqi; in Chongqing, another one committed suicide. Those
camps are totally inappropriate; parents should strive to re-establish family life, by: (1) Regain family ties; let the kid take more
responsibilities. Avoid the vicious circle of IAD => parents' severe reproach => worse IAD => worse reproach, etc. Try to accept
the addiction and understand the kid; treat the kid as a friend and to think in terms of the kid's inner frustrations; accept the kid's
mistakes; discuss on setting up family rules and promote abidance (2) All kids desire being understood, cared for and being
successful in their context; parents, to observe carefully, discover, (and affirm promptly) the kid's good points, interests and help
to fulfill happiness and to achieve their success (3) Parents to treat the kid on an equal stand; use a negotiating tone; affirm the
kid's good and counsel the kid for his bad points; respect the kid's opinion if feasible; Insist, encourage and work together on
some household chores.
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