保健 - 第67期 - page 42

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Sun Li Yue
LET CHILDREN LEARN TO
FACE ADVERSITY BOLDLY
Although children desire
success, they also need to ex-
perience defeat. Parents should
avoid shielding their kids from
all defeat. Mian-mian, a clever
5-year-old kid, has a bad habit
of showing obvious unhappi-
ness upon any defeat in games
and chess and even throw a
temper by overturning the
chess set. Her parents spoiled
her by letting her win. Frankly,
if a 6-year-old kid made a mis-
take during a stage play, he
should try again and be better
prepared next time rather than
to let him give up altogether.
"Failure is the mother of
success": by learning from vari-
ous adversities, failure is the
catalyst of success. However,
for 2 people with similar IQ, the
one with higher AQ (adversity
quot i ent ) wou l d be more
successful. During a concert,
Qi-qi was nervous and failed to
finish playing her B major
sonatina, parents should en-
courage her rather than telling
her off. When Mao-mao tried
unsuccessfully to spread his
blanket onto the bed, parents
should praise him for his efforts
and help him rather than to take
over the job. When Mo-mo was
crippled after a traffic accident,
parents overcome by relating a
similar past mishap.
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